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Classic `CONREF` (a co-constraint use case)
If a particular pair of attributes) have values, then the element must be empty. If they have no values, then the element must have content (obeying a normal content model), and certain other attributes must be present.
source: Marcos Mayorga 
Other use cases: Co-constraint Use Cases
Consider the following XML:
<mycontainer> <myelement name="n1" a="0" b="1"> <mynestedelement c="2"/> </myelement> <myelement name="n2" a="0" b="1"> <mynestedelement c="2"/> </myelement> <myelement href="doc2.xml" path="mycontainer/myelement#n3"/> </mycontainer>
where attributes name, a and b are required and mynestedelement is also required. At the other side, attributes href and path are required, and have simple content.
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The title given to this use case is mildly misleading; this is a more elaborate constraint than the `#CONREF` keyword for attributes provided in SGML.
The SGML `CONREF` keyword could be applied to a single attribute; it had the effect that if a value was specified for that attribute, the element in the document instance would be / could be / was required to be empty. As Charles Goldfarb describes it in the SGML Handbook (p. 159):
A "content reference attribute" ... is an attribute with the property that, if it is specified explicitly in a start-tag (rather than defaulted), then the content of that instance of the element is empty. Instead, the attribute value is used by the application (in some unspecified way) to produce content data.
A typical use of a content reference attribute is to allow the user to decide for any instance of an element, such as a figure, whether it will have normal SGML text content, or whether data in an external entity (such as a scanned image) will be used.
The use case outlined by the original poster is more complex, since it involves not one but two attributes (path and href) which must be supplied when the element is empty, and since it affects not just the content but also the other attributes.